Dear Birth Mother


Dear Birth Mother,

We’d like to start this letter by thanking you for considering us as the adoptive family for your child. We realize this decision is not an easy one for you. Please know that you are in our constant prayers. We also want you to know what a blessing you are to our family!

We are Chris & Helen from Kansas. We have been married for almost 8 years. Our entire married life we have prayed for God to bless us with another child. With your help, we hope to fulfill this dream.

We met at work and began emailing one another often. Chris was in sales and Helen in customer service. We met one February night and thought we would just be friends, but there seemed to be something else there that neither of us could quite shake. So, we decided to go on a date in July, got engaged in August and married in April of 2005. And here we are today! J

Our son, Zachary, just turned 18. Zac is Helen’s biological son whom Chris adopted 7 years ago. He is an awesome, energetic, loveable young man who loves sports, his guitar and his family! He’s always wanted a sibling in the home and is very excited about the opportunity to have a little sister or brother, even though he will be heading off to college or the military soon.

We live on a quiet street in a moderately sized 4 bedroom house with 1.5 bathrooms, 2 living rooms and a huge back yard. We live in a very friendly neighborhood. Our neighbors range from newborn to elderly. Chris’ parents live close, less than a mile away. Helen’s mother lives about 45 minutes away. We both have siblings that live within an hour from our home that we see often. Family and friends are very important to us as relationships are the foundation of life. Our families and friends are very supportive of our decision to adopt and are readily available to us if we ever have any needs.

Our professions suit our personalities very well. Chris is a sales representative. He loves helping others and sharing with them the benefits of the products he sells. His primary goals in sales are honesty, integrity and making a good living for his family. Helen is a receptionist. She is friendly and loves to make people smile. She enjoys her job because she comes in contact with a variety of people and is able to greet them with enthusiasm and her always caring manor.

Helen graduated high school with honors and attended a private college for 2 years taking courses in Family Service and Finance. Chris has an Associates Degree in Retail Marketing. Education is very important and comes in various forms. Experience is just as important as education. More important than either is for a person to do their best in everything they set out to do and to always be learning and growing.

Family time is always fun! Some activities we often enjoy are impromptu family sing a-longs, playing games, reading, bowling, decorating for holidays, various church activities, volunteer opportunities at the local rescue mission & other organizations, a recent trip to the pumpkin patch and short day trips. Other more planned activities we enjoy together are traveling out of town especially to the ocean, holiday activities and birthday celebrations!

Our family is very active in our church. We volunteer in our children’s Bible club (called AWANA), Helen & Chris currently work with 6th graders and Zac works in the games department. We also run the AWANA store where kids can buy fun items with the shares they earn by learning verses and other activities. Chris works the video booth on Sunday’s and Helen has a ministry sending cards to church members.

This is just a little about us and our lives. We hope you’ve enjoyed reading about us! In considering our family for your child we want you to know that we value you and want to respect you in all decisions regarding this adoption process. If your desire is to stay connected to your child, we would like to send you photos and letters to update you on the child’s life. We don’t have everything 100% figured out, so we can’t tell you how every situation will turn out in your child’s life, but we do know that we will love your child as our own and promise to take the best possible care of him/her and raise him/her to the best of our ability.

If you have questions or would like further information, please contact our representative A. Kent Vincent at (785) 234-0022. Thank you!

God bless you,

Chris & Helen

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